bipolar family coping
How to deal with rejection from a person with severe bipolar?
I met someone... we got along so great (he was gushing about me).. now he's switched off. He's rejected me and broke my heart and is not responsive. I need to move on and heal. all of my friends and family say it is not me but his sickness. How do I heal without blaming myself? I know this is because of his severe disorder but I am so hurt. Please don't respond if you are going to say mean things... i feel so fragile as-is. I know he is very ill now... I got attached and now I'm hurting. How do I cope? thanks.
You have to remember, he's going through a hard time too, having swaped emotions every five seconds. You have to see what he's going through. It's not you. It could have been any girl. I myself have "Ring of Fire" A.D.D., a form of A.D.D. familar to bipolar disorder. I know from experience and pyschological referance that it's not the person who thinks to reject, but thoughts swaped and confused while going through the limbic system (the emotion part of the brain). Thoughts stay there longer than with most people, and by the time they get to the frontal lobe (handles thinking), they're so distorted, you wouldn't believe where they came from. It's not you. This boy is dealing with a severe handicap. You must understand this is not a retardation, but a setback, preventing him from thinking as he should. He's completly normal, just with something extra to set him back. Also, it's a disorder, not an illness.
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